If you’re looking for a relationship, you have to be willing to do what it takes to make it work. The phrase “I love you” means so much more than just saying those three words out loud. It’s about the actions that come before that moment-actions like opening up to someone, taking them out on dates, or simply listening attentively when they talk about their dreams and aspirations.
If someone loves you—truly loves you—they will do these things with ease because they know how important they are in building something meaningful between two people who want to spend their lives together.
1. She initiates contact:
If she initiates contact with you, it’s a good sign. She wants to see you, talk to you, and be around you. She is interested in your well-being and happiness. She also doesn’t want to see other people’s relationships with you suffer because of hers.
The most important thing here is that she isn’t afraid of being rejected by sending the first message or even making plans for later on down the road (if things go well).
2. She invites you to dinner with her friends.
In this situation, your date wants to show you off. If a woman is going on a date with you and she does not want you to think that she is being shallow or not interested in having fun with her friends, then she will accompany them on their night out.
She may do this because:
* She wants to be proud of herself for choosing such an amazing guy (she might even already know that he’s amazing).
* She feels better about herself when other people see how much fun we are having.
* together and think “wow, look at how cool they are” instead of thinking “I wish I could be there.”
3. She opens up to you.
She is not afraid to open up to you, and she expects the same from you. If a girl has something she wants to tell you, she will do it without hesitation. She’s not afraid of being judged or criticized by others; instead, she trusts that enough people are honest enough with their loved ones that they won’t judge her too harshly when she says something embarrassing—and that’s exactly what makes her such a great person!
You will find out things about yourself through your girlfriend’s eyes that were previously unknown or even surprising: “I like classical music” isn’t necessarily something everyone knows but might surprise them when they hear it from their partner because there may be certain songs or artists that resonate strongly with them personally (or even better yet—with both parties).
4. She remembers the details
* She remembers your favorite color, food, and movie.
* She also recognizes some of the songs you like to listen to during dinner time or before bedtime.
* If she asks you if there’s anything special about yourself that means something to you, be sure to share! The more interesting things are about us as individuals, the better chance we have of becoming great friends and dating partners for life!
5. She calls you
When a woman calls you, she will call to check-in. She will call to say she is thinking about you. She will say that she misses you and loves the way you make her feel. She may also apologize for not calling earlier or ask why it took so long for her to get in touch with you after a long absence from each other’s lives (this is another sign that this relationship is serious).
But more than anything else, when she calls your phone number, it means that she wants something from you—and this could be anything from dinner dates (however many times per week) to marriage! That being said: if there’s one thing we know about women, it’s how much they love talking on the phone…even if those conversations are just about checking up on their men, who are often away at work all day long.
6. She protects you
A woman who dates you will do everything in her power to protect you and keep your life as simple and stress-free as possible.
She’ll defend your reputation by never bringing up any of the negative things that have been said about you. She’ll also help defend against further gossip by not talking to others about what’s happening between the two of you, even if they ask her questions or make comments that seem like they might be a little mean.
If someone tries to make fun of her boyfriend (or girlfriend), she’ll quickly put them in their place—either physically or verbally—and tell them off for being rude or inconsiderate toward someone else’s feelings.
7. She keeps your secrets.
In the end, it’s best not to keep secrets from your partner. It’s just a waste of time and energy that could be better spent on more important things. If you want to keep something private, don’t try to hide it; tell her right away and ask her permission before going any further.
If she loves you enough, she will not only respect this but also help protect it by keeping both of your secrets safe at all times!
8. She wants to see your family.
Another important thing to consider is that she wants to see your family. She wants to meet your parents, siblings, and friends and spend time with them all. A lot of women are attracted to men who have strong family values because they want a long-term relationship with someone who cares about their loved ones as much as they do.
It’s also important to note that if this girl wants something serious out of her relationship with you, then she won’t just settle for anything less than what she deserves—which means you need to show her how much love exists between the two of you!
9. She pays attention when you talk about your dreams and aspirations.
* She is interested in what you have to say.
* She is interested in your dreams and aspirations.
* She is interested in what you want to do with your life, and she wants to know more about it too!
That’s why it’s important that she pays attention when you talk about these things, because if a girl cares about other people, then she will also care about how her boyfriend feels about his future ambitions and goals.
10. She cooks for you or brings you food when you’re sick.
Cooking and bringing food when someone is sick is a great way to show your partner how much they mean to you. It’s practically like a romantic gesture, but without the need for flowers or expensive dinner reservations. Just give the person that you love some homemade chicken soup or some steamed vegetables (or both!) and see how happy they are!
11. She defends your honor.
She will stand up for you when people say something negative about you, especially if it’s something she does not agree with. She will not tolerate any bad behavior towards you, and she’ll be loyal to the end.
12. When she sees something that reminds her of you, she buys it for herself.
When she sees something that reminds her of you, she buys it for herself.
When your girlfriend goes shopping and sees an item that reminds her of you, she might buy it for herself because it makes her feel close to both of you. She wants to remember the good times together as well as the good times when they were apart.
13. She introduces your name in conversations with her friends and family.
If a girl is introducing you to her friends and family, she will be very happy to do so. She is introducing you not only as a potential partner but also as an individual who is interesting and worthy of her time.
If she introduces your name in conversations with them, it shows that she values their opinion of you very much. This makes the person who hears your name impressed by the fact that they know someone whose name they recognize (and maybe even like). It also shows that this person has become part of the group because of their connections with others—which means they must have been invited by someone else first!
14. When she’s ready to sleep, she wants you next to her.
When she’s ready to sleep, she wants you next to her.
In a healthy relationship, one of the most important things a couple can do is make sure they are getting enough sleep each night. Sleep is vital for both mental and physical health—and it’s also crucial for maintaining a healthy sex life or even just staying up late with friends or family members.
According to Dr. Allan Hobson, a professor at Harvard Medical School and author of The Psychology of Sex: “Sleep loss has been shown to negatively affect relationships by reducing intimacy.” And, according to Match Group Inc. data, 53% of singles struggle with a lack of sleep because their busy schedules prevent them from getting enough sleep at night (making them less attractive).
So if your girlfriend wants something more than just “goodnight kisses,” try giving her some extra cuddle time while she sleeps!
15. You become part of her life so smoothly that she doesn’t need to alter it at all.
The person is a part of your life, so you don’t have to change anything. You can be the same person you were before they came along!
This is one of the most important things you need to know about dating someone new: if they’re part of your life now, then there’s no reason for them not to continue being part of it as well. If that means that things change slightly from time to time (like changing schedules or routines), then so be it—as long as everything stays relatively simple overall in terms of what exactly goes into each day/week/month and yearlong routine.
16. She’s not afraid to show affection in public.
You can tell that she’s comfortable with your relationship. She wants to show you off and she wants others to know that you’re special. If a guy is showing off in public, it’s because they want people to know they have someone special—whether or not that’s true!
If she is showing affection towards you in public, then this means one of two things: either A) she really cares about how others perceive your relationship, or B) this itself speaks volumes about how much she loves being around you (and vice versa). Either way, Bravo!
17. You’ve got a keeper on your hands…
If someone loves you, they will do these things for you.
If someone loves you and cares about your feelings, they won’t hurt your feelings or treat you badly as a result of their actions. They will also try their best not to upset others around them when they’re with you or doing something that might upset them (which is usually the case).
If someone really cares about another person’s happiness, then it’s unlikely that he/she would ever intentionally hurt him/herself by doing something stupid in front of others, like smoking cigarettes or getting drunk at work parties—even though these things might seem like fun at first glance!
In the end, the choice is yours. If you already have a girlfriend or boyfriend and they aren’t doing these things for you, then there’s no reason for them to change their behavior. If neither of those options appeals to you, then perhaps this article has given some insight into what might be going wrong in your relationship and how it could be fixed.